Gender joy: the state of feeling comfort and joy in your gender identity and presentation.
We all deserve gender joy. We deserve to wake up in the morning, put on clothing that feels good, and see our true self reflected back at us in the mirror.
It may sound simple, but we believe that empowering the transmasculine, nonbinary, and gender non conforming communities to feel seen, safe, and empowered is important work.
That's why we've spent two years interviewing and surveying thousands of people to begin building a whole new fit system, one designed with our needs and desires in mind.
It's time to stop hoping the fashion industry will wake up to our needs. It's time to build our own brand.
Support our mission and ability to continue the costly work of designing new styles from scratch by purchasing some garments today, or by donating to our pay it forward program, which enables us to get garments to those who are not currently able to afford them.
Our garments are ethically and sustainably produced, and the product of (literally) years of labor. We know you'll love them.
In the summer of 2020, our founder Finn was recovering from top surgery. One day, excited at the prospect of soon being able to go swimming topless, he googled ‘trans swimwear.’ The selection was incredibly limited. He then googled ‘trans apparel.’ It took less than ten minutes to exhaust his options, and what he wanted didn’t exist: high quality, stylish garments in proportions that fit his body.
At this point, Finn was tired of waiting for someone else to come along and solve this problem, so he set out to solve it himself. Thousands of interviews and hundreds of prototypes later, Both& has launched a whole new category of design that is serving transmasculine, nonbinary, and gnc folks around the world.
Both&’s mission is to empower, outfit, and serve the nonbiniary generation, one garment at a time.
Let customers speak for us
These jeans are so freaking dope. I've been looking for jeans that would be loose on my thighs and butt like this for a long time. I will say, I measured my hips, etc according to the sizing guide at first and what I got was WAY too big. Had to return twice until I got the right size. If this is helpful to anyone: I'm a size 30 in the Marlo and a 4 or 6 in women's jeans (if I want them to fit my waist) and the Jo size 29 is still super baggy in a great way.
I haven't bought any new jeans since I started transitioning and these fit perfectly. highly recommend following the size chart instructions. they give me dad jean vibes in the best way, probably because my dad still has a pair of light wash jeans that he still wears from the 90s. A+
Love these jeans, but I would definitely go up a size. I'm nonbinary - post top surgery, 5'6", 130lbs Normally in all "mens" jeans I’m a 32 waist/hips - so that’s what I ordered, unfortunately it appears they run on the tight side. I do love the pants and will be ordering more in the future, just one size up.
Never worn a shirt as affirming as this one.
When I found out about Both& I was so excited to try their clothes, and this shirt was beyond my expectations. I’m newly out as transmasc (no HRT or top surgery yet) and have a fairly large chest (not sure exact size but at least DD). I’ve spent years living in sweatshirts and baggy layers, and I always thought I would have to until top surgery. My binder helps a bit, but in normal shirts it just looks like I have a smaller chest and am wearing a sports bra and I would never leave the house without at least a sweatshirt to cover up. When I tried on this shirt, it instantly changed my mind. I felt the most confident in how I looked in years and excited to wear clothes in a way I only imagined feeling after surgery. I got a size larger than my usual size in men’s shirts, and although it doesn’t hide my chest completely (which I think would be impossible), this shirt is leaps and bounds ahead of what I thought was possible for me right now. Also sorry for such a long review!!!
Thank you Both& for making me so happy:)
I love Both& and their products make me feel more ‘me’! I ordered the Khazeel in turquoise (though it looks hella green to me tbh, but it’s still a pretty color) and in a large, and I’m pleased to say it’s a little big on me so I’ll be sure to get a medium next time!
Being a 5’1” transmasc guy, I’m sure you can imagine how difficult it is to find clothes that fit my build in the first place, let alone ones that actually highlight a masculine shape in a tasteful way. Both& definitely changed that for me.
I cannot stress enough how empowered these clothes make me feel. The Jo jeans are perfect for my height (I got a 29x29) and don’t highlight my curves the way other jeans do, and have a vintage look to them, which I am a big fan of. The Finnegan shirt fits boxy and lays flat against the chest thanks to the heavy-weight cotton. Same goes with Francis and Elmo, both high quality garments that don’t show binder lines and cut off right at my hips (xs for all shirts, s for the Elmo hoodie). These clothes fit my body perfectly and allow me to go out in public with confidence I’ve never felt before.
If the prices seem a little steep- trust me- everything is well worth the cost. All the products are made with quality materials, and I’ve had no issues with colors fading or buttons wearing out. Not to mention the excellent customer service and fast shipping.
Both& will be my primary clothing store, from this point forward. 🏳️⚧️✨
Immediately when i put these pants on, I said YES. Shopping in the mens section is always a challenge because the inseam is always way too big. Men’s pants are super tight on my thighs or butt and awkwardly loose everywhere else. It typically makes shopping for pants super dysphoric.
Not these. Thank you Both& for make things for US.
I love this boxy crop so much! I was a bit skeptical at first that it would make much difference in the appearance of my shoulders, as I am very narrow up top, but the fabric’s stiffness makes the shirt hang in a way that is extremely flattering and euphoric. I am also quite sensitive to fabric textures so was nervous that the stiffness would be a compromise in terms of comfort, but the shirt is still very soft and not uncomfortable at all. If you are wondering if the shirt is worth the price, the answer is definitely yes. I held off for a while because I was unsure and now I wish I had bought this sooner!
Beautiful fabric and workmanship. Runs very small - I normally wear a 2X but bought a 3X and it is still a bit snug across hips.
Absolutely obsessed with the shape of these jeans ! They’re comfortable to wear and look very stylish. I can wear them with hems or sagging on my sneakers! this pair successfully hides my hips and provides a lot of gender euphoria ! Thank you!
I’m very skinny yet this muscle shirt looks great on me. The fabric is light and has a pleasant texture, the fit is on point, well done!
I usually wear a 29 x 32 am 5' 9" and have the Jo in a 30 x 28. I like a shorter style so I was good with that and these were actually longer than I expected. Super comfortable, fit best at a mid rise for me, great quality. I would be interested in longer lengths but I like the style as the hit the same length as when I cuff my jeans. New favorite pair of jeans!
Hello I ended up returning it just due to my body shape. The shirt was great just didn’t fit my body in the best way.
My gf and I both have different bodies and different clothing needs, but she ended up ordering a pair after touching and seeing mine. The denim is soft and super well made. I like that I can wear them higher or lower on my hips, depending on the look I’m going for. Be sure to measure yourself—I had to buy a size up than I’d normally buy.