Lesbian Outfits: Clothes for Lesbians

Fashion is a powerful form of self-expression, reflecting individual identities and personal styles. For lesbians, clothing can be an important piece of self-expression. It can also play a role in finding community, and signaling sexual orientation.
In this blog, we will cover lesbian clothing style, lesbian fit, lesbian looks, and lesbian outfits for summer. But let’s start with a more philosophical question. When we say lesbian apparel, lesbian attire, or lesbian outfits, what do we even mean?

 

What Even is Lesbian Fashion?

What defines lesbian style as ‘lesbian’? Lesbian is a descriptor of sexuality. So what does that have to do with clothing?

Historically, fashion, style, and fit have developed through a binary lens. One way to signal sexual orientation is through clothing. Deviating from the ‘norm’ of the clothing your gender is ‘supposed’ to wear has been a way of signaling your sexuality.

Today, the terms ‘butch’ and ‘femme’ are used less frequently. Instead, there is an presumption that anyone who is dressing in a more masc way may be gender queer or nonbinary, rather than their fashion being a representation of sexuality by itself.
But of course, lesbian fashion is absolutely a thing, and exists separate from/within a more gender-expansive world. So how do we define it? If you go to google and type in “lesbian style fashion,” “clothes for dykes,” “cute lesbian outfits,” or “lesbian aesthetic outfits,” what kind of search results are you expecting to see?

 

Masc Lesbian Outfits

In this image, the model is wearing the Franklin long sleeve shirt by Both& apparel. The Franklin shirt falls under the category of 'basic' lesbian attire.

Masc lesbian outfits often emphasize a more androgynous or masculine style, blending comfort with a strong sense of identity. These outfits can range from casual to formal, but they all share a common theme of breaking away from traditional feminine fashion norms.

If you are looking for gay women’s clothing, you are likely to come across these more masc style of clothing. Historically, this style was more associated with the word ‘butch.’ Today, while butch is still in use, another word has come to the forefront of culture: masc.

If a masc lesbian look is what you are after, here are some resources we suggest. Read masc clothing, a guide here. Learn about masc pants for AFAB folks here. Finally, learn about FTM and AFAB fashion broadly here. 

 

Casual Wear

Lesbian dressing styles can be both formal and casual. For formal, the style varies based on the season. We will cover cooler weather lesbian outfits fits.

Lesbian Flannels and Button-ups: Flannel shirts and button-ups are staples in the masc lesbian wardrobe. They offer a versatile look that can be dressed up or down and provide a relaxed yet stylish vibe. From a fit perspective, flannels tend to be a fav amongst lesbians because they often have a boxier (rather than rectangular) shape.

Jeans and Cargo Pants: Durable and practical, jeans and cargo pants are popular for their comfort and ruggedness. Paired with a simple t-shirt or tank top, they create a classic, laid-back look. (You can get Both& jeans here, and cargos here. Both&’s clothes are made to create a masc fit on anyone who was assigned female at birth, and are a lesbian fav).

Jean Jackets and Hoodies: For cooler weather, jean jackets and hoodies are go-to items. They add an extra layer of warmth without compromising on style, and both tend to have a boxy shape. (You can get the Both& jean jacket here, and the hoody here).

Lesbian summer outfits

In warmer weather, lesbians often rock an androgynous style, mixing together femme and masc elements. A great example of this is the musician G Flip, who is known for wearing oversized shorts and a sports bra.

One of the most popular lesbian summer styles is a muscle tank. These tank tops are comfortable, lightweight, but maintain a more masculine vibe.

 

Dress Clothes for Lesbians

Lesbian dress clothes can be hard to find. Whether you want something for a wedding, or just a dress outfit in general, a good fit that is affordable and high quality is hard to come by.

Suits and Blazers: Masc lesbians often gravitate towards suits and blazers for formal occasions. Unfortunately, it can be challenging to find ready to wear suits and blazers that fit in the way masc lesbians want, so many folks in the community end up getting tailored pieces. Tailored suits can be very sharp, but of course are pricey. If you are willing to spend the money, one of the most popular suiting options is Kirrin Finch.

Ties and Bowties: Accessories like ties and bowties add a personal touch to formal outfits. They can range from classic black to bold patterns, allowing for individual expression.

Lesbian chinos: Probably the most popular lesbian dress style for pants is chinos. You can buy chinos in a wide range of shapes and styles, depending on how masc v. femme you would like them to be.

 

Common Accessories and Footwear for Lesbians

Accessories and footwear are essential components of any outfit, providing the finishing touches that express personal style and identity. For lesbians, these items can be both practical and symbolic.

Accessories

Hats and Beanies: Hats, such as snapbacks, beanies, and fedoras, are popular choices that add flair and individuality to an outfit. They also serve practical purposes, like protecting from the sun or keeping warm.

Jewelry: From minimalist pieces to bold statement jewelry, accessories like rings, necklaces, and bracelets can reflect personal tastes and significant symbols, such as pride flags or meaningful charms.

Belts and Suspenders: Belts and suspenders are functional and stylish, often used to add a touch of personality to outfits. They can also be practical for ensuring a better fit.

Footwear

Boots and Sneakers: Boots, especially combat or work boots, are a common choice for their durability and style. Brands like Doc Martens and Timberland are favorites for their iconic looks and comfort.

Sneakers: Sneakers are versatile and comfortable, making them a staple in many wardrobes. Brands like Converse, Vans, and Adidas offer a range of styles that can be dressed up or down.

Loafers and Dress Shoes: For more formal occasions, loafers and dress shoes provide a polished look. These options are perfect for pairing with suits or more dressy attire.

 

Challenges of Finding Good Clothing for Lesbians

Finding clothing that fits both style and body can be challenging for lesbians. The fashion industry has historically catered to heteronormative standards, often neglecting the diverse needs of the LGBTQ+ community.

This is especially the case when it comes to fit patterns–lesbians often find themselves in the same position as nonbinary or transmasc folks, who want a masculine silhouette but don’t fit well into cis men’s clothing. This is because of body proportion–for instance, torso length relative to hip width. To address this issue requires a new fit system, which until recently simply didn’t exist. To learn more about the creation of the first masc fit and sizing system, we recommend you explore this resource.

 

Conclusion

Lesbian fashion is as diverse and dynamic as the community itself. Whether you are looking for a simple summer outfit or a suit to wear on a date, you have many options. None are wrong or right, they are just different ways to express yourself.